Tag Archives: Relationships

The good, the bad and the ugly! One year and counting…

They say the first three years of marriage is the hardest. Well, after only 402 days of marriage, we've had some pretty heated moments, and we have contemplated divorce... even murder! But we both agree that we'd be pretty darn miserable without each other (and we really hate prison). So, here are the discoveries or the reminders of why...
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The curse of New Year’s Eve

5. 4. 3. 2. 1… fireworks, confetti, champagne, hugs and kisses abound with enthusiastic shouts of “Happy New Year!” In the midst of this whirlwind is a couple, backs turned towards each other as they force smiles and return well wishes to those around them. Who is this couple? And, what could be so bad...
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I hate your family (and friends)

OK, so everyone knows that getting married is not just the joining together of two people, but their families and friends! For most people this can be as painful as a root canal without anaesthesia (yikes). If you know me you will also know that my mother is my LIFE. No buts! I would never...
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Fights that you may…nay…will have before your wedding!

I don’t profess to be a wedding planner or counsellor for that matter. Heck, I have only planned one wedding -- mine. But there are a few things I learnt along the way that could be useful to a future bride. It’s normal to fight... seriously, nothing’s wrong with you It is days to the...
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Commitment – what does it mean?

Don’t get it twisted. Getting married or having a wedding is no true indication of commitment. Well yes, it may be commitment in the sense that he has decided to spend his life with you (or for as long as you both can stand each other), make you the mother of his children and share...
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